The life of a plant is in its roots. You can damage its leaves and branches, even its stem, and the plant can still survive. But if you kill the root, you kill the plant. So in a sense, the main life of a plant is the hidden part.
That’s how anger works. The part you see is not its main life. The parts you see—red faces and quickened pulses, harsh words and forced sighs, raised voices and clenched fists—these are expressions of something deeper. Something in the roots. Something in the heart.
So what is it, there in the heart? What do we call that root condition that leads to sinful expressions of anger?
If we go too generic with our label, we won’t be gaining much. If we describe our anger merely as sin, we will not gain the insight necessary for overcoming it. Anger in its usual form certainly involves sin. But generic acknowledgment usually doesn’t get you past generic repentance. We need further insight into the particular way our hearts are sinning that wells up into expressions of anger.
Insight into the heart starts with some cold water on a hot face. A really useful source of cold water is James 4:1–10. In this passage, James compels his readers to wake up to the reality going on under the surface of their anger. “What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you?” (James 4:1).
Here’s my main point: We need humble discernment into our own hearts to understand our anger. This discernment is a gift of the Holy Spirit that we must seek.
Discernment is the ability to make distinctions, to tell the difference between right and wrong, fitting and unfitting, beautiful and repulsive. In other words, your heart is tuned to sense the difference between what is pleasing and displeasing to the Lord (Rom. 12:1–2; Phil. 1:9–11). This discernment is not unlike the ability of a soldier equipped with night-vision goggles in a dark place. He can better spot the features of his surroundings because he is better able to distinguish between different kinds of dark.
James tells his readers to aim those goggles not outwardly but inwardly. He tells them to discern the different kinds of dark inside their own souls. Specifically, he insists that Christians distinguish the ruling desires that are the root—the life—of their anger (James 4:1–4). This is no self-improvement exercise. It is an act of radical submission. It is, in humility, surrendering to the will of God what we find most precious. James says that God jealously yearns that His Spirit would be the One dwelling in and ruling our hearts (James 4:5). Not our desires. He will give every grace to establish this. And He will oppose every challenge to it (James 4:6–10).